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Recovery when you can't go no-contact

Notes on recovery when the contact does not fully end — shared children, court dates, family ties. Written by Barbara Duchnowski, LCSW.

October 13, 2026

The Mother We Never Talk About: When the First Attachment Was a High-Control Parent

Narcissistic abuse from a mother is injury inside the formation of self. Why 'just go no contact' doesn't land the way it does for people leaving a relationship, and what actually changes with real treatment.

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September 6, 2026

Calm Can Feel Like Danger After Coercive Control

Peace shows up and your body treats it like a setup. Why quiet can feel like the beat before impact after coercive control — and what to do with a night that feels too still.

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